The point is that he should ASK her if this is true for her. Thanks for the help. Yes; I suppose if each of us believe the other is brainwashed, there's going to be major problems later on. Otherwise, happiness can be found in any relationship. Until you do he's a free agent and in high demand. With moonlighting included, my boyfriend sometimes works up to hours per week. Don't tiptoe around the issue. In any case; I can assure you from your post that he doesn't sound like he's being selfish; the behavior does sound like its residency related and not selfishness related. I chose to move on. It's a tricky business, but oh so worth it for the one you love.
The important things that keep our marriage a happy, healthy, and very loving one are the same things that keep any other marriage alive and well. Wow, every word resonates. I married a person, not a religion. That's a really sad story. She is passionate about it. I am sure you can all guess how this ends As his moving date was approaching, he was spending more and more time with his friends and less and less time with me. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed.
While my husband is not a doctor he does have a job that requires very odd hours a-typical of the American and works all holidays. If your date has been an active member of the Church who is following these moral guidelines, then she will not be willing to involve herself in a sexual relationship with you. Now if your faith is not so strong to begin with, this perhaps is no big deal.
You join the LDS Church. Maybe that is why I am grouchy and can't cheer when my husband becomes a director for yet another board at the hospital. Lok for certain things: Spend some time with a few and you will know what to look for. It was a complete turn around from what I'd previously seen from her but obviously it was something she'd been thinking about. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined. All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying.