I married a non-member over 20 years ago. My family supported me in this. So, kudos to you for having such a wonderful relationship for so long and getting through step 1 and 2 and matching.
We have a happy marriage. The woman provides advice and counsel but doesn't preside. Some of the guests talked about the importance of helping hard core mormons to be open and accepting to ALL their brothers and sisters in the church, regardless of sexual orientation. Plx express what yu think as you ladies are more experienced in this stuff.
But life is long and eternal and all righteous people will choose the right at the end. It is helpful to know that there are others who are experiencing the same emotions and to hear about your coping methods and advice. This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. The big one is that under Mormon theology both of you must be believing, fully active members to live together in the afterlife. I get a lot of satisfaction out of being a paramedic and my business is a long time dream. We seem to be one two different planets communication in two different languages.
Going along with her cult might feel fine when it is just you in her, but if you have kids, it will be very different. As a general authority I knew, now deceased, told me in the mid-eightiesвIf you find a good man who is not LDS, marry him. We get along exceptionally well and I really like him though, so I can see this going somewhere. There are a great many beliefs I can't condone but most of them are along the lines of gender stereotyping, and how you apply that to your own life obviously varies by individual. Communicate and get those answers, OP. For every lesson and sermon preached about loving everyone, there are one or two lessons on avoiding outsiders because they will destroy your eternity. And a YW leader feels soory for my daughter who is growing up in a home without the priesthood. Is your spouse willing to give you up on Sundays, and half your weeknights.