Wow i am in the exact same position. Warnings While the LDS Church accepts that those who feel attraction to members of their own sex can be Mormons, it discourages acting on those feelings. We strive to improve each other. By the end of the first date with my husband I knew I wanted him to be a part of my life.
I believe that we are all on different paths, but that it is possible for us to travel on different paths side-by-side. I feel sorry for you, not because your husbands are working so hard but because you gave up your own lives. The first key question to as is: If the answer is yes then the relationship sounds like it's doomed. Play with fire if you don't fear getting burned.
I am also certain that there are callings and opportunities that I would have had, were I married to a faithful LDS woman, that I have missed. Are you going to keep the sabbath holy as a family, or is he going to take the kids out for pizza after church, leaving you home to observe alone. He married the new girl then cheated on her. It's why TBMs are so bugged by people that leave the church. I've tried creating my own activities and pursuing interests but it still feels weird. There are many catholic families with these three main ethnic groups within it. God will help you both work this out.
You should certainly still date even if you are not looking for a marriage partner. I love my non-member husband of nearly 20 years. You will get to mingle with a lot of new people, and who knows, maybe you will also find the guy or girl of your dreams there. On weekends he likes to go out and get away from medicine usually at a bar and although I'm with him I'm not with the real true version of him. Good Questions to Ask Someone. You've stated that she had numerous guys break up with her after she took sex off the table. I suppose it depends on your personality.